Exactly how to Get a One-Night Stand
One-Night Stands are hard to pull off. A lot can go wrong between the first eye contact to the next day phone call. These are the essentials about what you need to know about one night stands:
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Where to Connect with Her
Any location which provides alcohol and has music: Tavern, Clubs, Lounges, etc.
Sites not to look: Work functions are a giant no-no! Don’t shit where you sleep. Also, a lot of women don’t want to taint their own career by giving the office something to gossip about. Dinner parties are too elegant. Family get-togethers are also out of the question, no woman thinks about having sex when Uncle Tom is sitting right across from her.
Comprehend the Signs
A girl looking for a casual affair is generally seeking to be seen. “If I’m trying to hook up that night, I’ll be at the bar making eye contact with a hot guy” says my friend Jenn. Look for women who are out to have a blast, who are giggling their ass off, grinding with every guy on the dance floor and making eye contact with everybody. It’s not a sure sign that they’re out to get laid but what’s the harm in making the approach and finding out.
What She is Looking For
Females want to be chased but when it comes to one night stands, a vast majority of women play the role of seducer.
Fall Back: Don’t use your goofy pickup line that you read in Playboy. Be yourself and say something like “Hi, I’m Chris.” A fling is the one time a woman will choose a dude by his appearance. You don’t have to be untouched, a little suave (charming, comfortable and exquisite) will go a long way. Show your charming personality along with a dapper wardrobe and eye to eye contact. Hang around the area she’s at, flirt back when she flirts with you but try to remember to let her take the lead.
What You Are Looking For
Make it obvious from the beginning; you’re not seeking for a long term romantic relationship. “Be straight up with her from the start about what you want”. This will write off any thought a female might have about their one night stand turning into a romance. She’s probably on the same page as you but it’s better to be sure.
The Green Light
When do you find out when all signs are a go? It’s when she suggests (or agrees with you) to get out of the current bar or club you guys are at to go someplace else. It’s probably best that you go to the woman's place and not your own house. She will be more comfortable and you have the option of leaving before the sun comes up.
Make the move: You are now at 2nd base about to be at third. Small talk will ruin the moment. A couple compliments is the way to go. Tell her that she’s stunning and stunning. Now it’s time to make the move. “I love it when he gets very near to me and pauses, then we both come in for the make out” says Jenn. Let the undressing and sex start! Make it a occasion to remember and keep it covered up: use a condom.
When to Go
Be straight up and tell her that you had a wonderful time. Don't say that “you’ll call her” or “maybe we can see each other again” if it isn’t a fact. If you want to always keep her in your fuck buddy list, ask her for her email address. The next day, send her an email saying that you had a fantastic time last night and if she every wants to do it for a second time to contact you. If you find out she’s a nuts, you can always erase your email address.
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